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When things don't go according to plan... here's what I do!
When things don't go according to plan... here's what I do!
When things don't go according to plan - here's what I do!
I spoke too soon. I shared my travel plan last week and I should have known all will change! I have been in the midst of what could feel like a chaos and the unknown.My root chakra is shaken knowing I gotta to be out of my apartment by next week Sunday and my plans are now up in the air! Looks like roadtrip is a no go and other plans are forming.But oh boy, as the plans change, it stirs up your root chakra and can make you shake up!I am getting a lot of lessons about attachment, trust and dealing with the unexpected and the unknown, all of which are huge parts of the changes we go through in life.I thought I share a few lessons with you, , to help you navigate transitions, changes and things might not go according to how you planned it!1. When an unexpected change happens. Calm down. Let it be. When calm, take action. Do not take action from panic and fear. Hasty panic and fear based decisions lead to misalignment later. Make always calculated centred decisions from your logic and intuition, and you will not be guided wrong. 2. What is for you will flow, what is not will feel forced. Trust it.Flow and feeling good is a sign of God. God is good. What feels good is right, what does not feel right is not. Trust it.3. When a plan does not go according to plan, let go of that plan and allow another plan to unfold. Do not attach to plans as the plans will change. Another plan might actually be way better!4. Know when plans shift, it is Universe's protection and redirection. Don't fight it. Trust it is the right thing and the safest for you. 5. When an unexpected change occurs that you do not want, remember that it will always be what you need. I've come to learn throughout my life that when we don't get what we want, it can sometimes be the hardest thing to accept.But if we do, we open the door to receive what we truly need and deserve.In this last week, I've learned more about attachment, trust, peace and surrender than in years.So, when things don't go according to plan, do these 8 steps:
Allow the plan to break - never attach to a plan.
Allow a new one to unfold by giving it space. Let go, let God.
Move your body through the nerves.
Breathe through it.
Calm yourself so Universe is not too busy taking care of you but can take care of unfolding the new plan.
See where there is flow and where there is force. Flow is your sign that it is right.
Reassess options through how you're feeling about it in your mind, heart and gut.
Action from the inner knowing.
Let me know how this resonated. We all go through things when things don't go according to plan.I hope these steps help you navigate through it.I shall keep you posted. My travel plans keep changing.But I choose to allow it because it will be what is meant to be.Heartfully,EsPS: I recorded a general Oracle Card reading for this week for Youtube. Trying something new to do them in video format. Check it out below and there might be a message that brings you ease and peace. You can email me to book 1:1 reading if resonates. xx
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