“Whatever you’re not changing, you’re choosing. Whatever you’re choosing, you’re allowing.”

Let’s unpack this quote, shall we?

There are two types of change that happens for us: there is the change we initiate and choose, and the change that is chosen by someone else or created by an external event that is out of our control.

I want to speak about the first type of change though that is in your control.

A lot of change can start with you. You are in control of a lot of things in your life. So, your choices are what drive your changes and your life.

When you don’t take action toward a change, that is a choice, too. You’re choosing that. That is a choice to allow whatever is, to be.

Whatever you are choosing, you allow that.

This is the secret to making change happen: allowing and choosing.

So, what are you choosing in your life right now?

What are you allowing?

What are you NOT choosing? What’s getting in the way?

What are you NOT allowing, and why?

These are helluva powerful questions and it is in the questions we ask ourselves that will determine what kind of life we live. That is why coaching is so powerful because it is based on asking powerful questions to help people find answers.

My dear reader, whatever your heart might have been telling you for awhile now. Something that you keep thinking about repeatedly - it is there for a reason. Waiting. Lurking for you to choose to take action toward it.

What would happen if you ALLOWED yourself to go for it?

What if you chose to do that thing your heart is calling you?

What if you did do the thing that bloody scares you?

For me, when I allowed myself to let go of my attachment to my flat in London, I am now three months later living my dream in Bali.

The more I’ve allowed myself to be present here, the more aliveness I feel. The more I’ve allowed myself to heal and step into my feminine, the more it’s started to change my dating life. The more I’ve allowed myself to believe and have faith, the more miracles I experience every day.

It all starts with you allowing yourself.

Allowing yourself to even think your life could look different.

Allowing yourself to dream.

Allowing yourself to want more for yourself.

Allowing yourself to put you first.

From allowing, choices are birthed, and from the choices, you can then take action.

Allowing and making choices is scary, though. Let alone taking action on them - even scarier!

I’ve been there! I’ve done it. So, I can help you do it, too.

If this resonates and you got niggling feeling to make a change, let’s connect.

I’m offering complimentary life coaching sessions to get you started and I got 5 slots to take on coaching clients for a three-month journey that you can change your life to what you want it to be.

This is my gift to you, my dear reader, because I believe you deserve to have your version of a heartful life.

I love you. Keep connecting and keep moving.

Heartfully,
Essi